I wrote a post like this last year, and wanted to do it again this year. This that post, I presented a defense for recognizing such people who the Lord has used to refresh my spirit. If you would like to see that defense, click here.
I will probably forget very important people to me, but these are the people that God has put on my heart to thank personally for serving me in the last year, so if I didn’t include you, I’m sorry!
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Thank you Dan Bunker for
all the 3AM texts message conversations. Thank you for all the opportunities
you've given me to play around in your garage. Thank you for all the 10PM steak
dinners. Thank you for just listening to me tell you how much I have no idea
what's going on. I remember that one night, sitting in your rocking chair, when
you suggested that I sign up for the full credit load this semester. The Lord
used your speaking into my situation that night to really set my life on the
trajectory that it is right now. I was so glad to know I could just hang out
with you guys and wind down, get a new perspective on things, and tell stories
about our "15" year old friend Shawn. I am not kidding you--I
literally remember that night talking about those kids and I still will start
laughing out loud. As I sit at McDonald's and write this, I am right now
laughing at all the hysterical things that happened that day.
Me: Gabe, could you come help me throw this wood away?
Shawn: Gabe was actually going to play with me just now... buuttt...
Me: What was that?
Shawn: Gabe was actually going to play with me just now... buuttt...
#priceless
Thank you Meredith Bunker
for all the lunch breaks sitting at your counter, sharing my emotional
struggles and your gracious ear and thoughtful responses. I was really glad to
have access to your perspective through which I was able to better understand
all the stuff that felt like a tornado swirling around me. The Lord was
incredibly gracious to give me a second home at the 247. I know things aren't
perfect. But the Lord really used you guys to protect me from many a dangerous
thought. I am blessed in a way that I don't see many other twenty-year-olds by
my relationship with y'all. I'm very thankful.
Thank you Dan Castine for
your tender heart towards me this summer. The Lord has taught me much from
watching your life and example. I am reminded of your kindness to me every day
I turn on the ignition to transport myself to work. You have been faithful in
praying for me and letting me know in very visible ways that you care about me.
I am blessed to have men in my life like you.
Thank you Eliot Delorme
for being my ex-roommate. I want you to hear the emphasis on the
"roommate" part and not so much on the "ex" part. I hope u
is see it, if u no wut I be sayin, döh. The Lord has been so good to give me a
brother like you who I can be a legitimate idiot with. Seriously.
Our car rides are some of the most dumb and the most enjoyable times I've had
since I've been here this semester. It is incredibly rare to find someone who I
can have such great, deep conversations with and be so uplifted in my faith in
the Lord and at the same time, have more fun with you than with almost anyone.
The Lord is really good to me to give me you as a friend, especially one who
takes up his crib back in tha 781 about 1.25 hours from my crib. Trust me. I do
see were u is at döh.
Thank you Joey Ertsos for
being my go to guy, especially this time last year. Man, we've come quite a
long way. One of the reasons I loved the summer of 2012 in all the difficulty
that it presented was our McDonald's hangout times. I've been really encouraged
by your growth in humility and your devotion to the things of the Lord. It's
been like basically fifteen weeks since our last McDonald's hangout and I still
really miss it, bro. I can't wait to continue to see all that He does in your
life as we continue to progress as friends and kindred spirits who long for His
work in and through our lives. The Lord was really gracious and kind to give us
that weekend in Maine back in 2010. I hope there are still many more years to
come.
Thank you Ryan Griffith
for the professor, counselor, friend, and in many ways, big brother that you
have been to me these almost three years. I can't explain to you the
gratefulness I have for the Lord's providing hand and to you for your heart of
grace towards me. I am blessed like few other men to have the unique friendship
that we share. To be honest with you, I often feel like I get the good part of
this friendship. I guess that's grace. For which I'm thankful.
Thank you Dale Gruber for
being the buddy that every boy needs. You've seen the brokenness. You've seen
the joy. You've been there for me when I've needed to skip Hebrew. You've
shared the glory of Krezface Live at the Glastonbury with me. You've seen the
bottom fall out. You've seen the Lord lift me up. You've seen the Lord sustain
me. Even if we weren't such close friends, I would be thankful for you based on
the sheer amount of time that we have walked together through the thick and
thin. Call it selfish, but I'm glad I get a friend like you.
Thank you Matt Johnson for
being the in-the-trenches brother I've so needed this semester. I love the
parallel lessons that we are learning together. It's a unique thing to have hit
it off so quickly and get as deep as we have in the really short time that
we've had together. The Lord has been very gracious to me in giving me you as a
housemate. I can't wait to look back at this season with you and marvel in His
goodness to us in all the ways that we will be able to see so clearly at that
time (I hope). I'm looking forward to the fight with you, brother.
Thank you Brad Kresge for
all the couchside conversations as we tried to fool ourselves into thinking we
were getting something done. I am incredibly glad that the Lord restored our
friendship when He did, to the level that He did. I'll never forget our
conversation somewhere in February (I think) when you preached the sovereignty
of God to me like nobody had before. I regularly look back at that time and see
how true your exhortation was. I am so grateful for the massive part
that you have played in opening doors for the Lord to go to work in my life.
Because of your friendship, I am not the man I used to be.
Thank you Gabe Leake for
being an example to me with your servant's heart. You joyfully see and meet
needs. You take the opportunities to help your brothers and sisters without
looking to be thanked. You get stuff done that couldn't be done without you and
nobody knows. I love that about you. I look up to you in many ways. I am really
thankful for that conversation when you pursued me and asked me how I was doing
in some pretty specific ways because you care about my soul. The Lord is good
to me to put brothers in my life like you. I pray for you and really want to
see Him continue to make you a man who is continually known by selfless,
others-loving service.
I thank the Lord for you Kevin
McClure and the intensity with which He has used you to grow in the nurture
and admonition of Him. Through you, the Lord has taught me a plethora of
lessons. I find myself starting to act like you in many of the ways that you
comport yourself around this basement. As you have said and I agree, I learn
just as much if not more from your method than your message. I can count on one
hand the men who the Lord has used in my life to grow me in my pursuit of Him
and my love of the brethren in the way that He has used you to that end. I am
so grateful to Him for that, and I am so thankful to you for not quenching the
work and the conviction of the Spirit in your heart that would limit the grace
flowing through you. We could get off on a discussion concerning the theology
of the way that the Spirit uses willing and unwilling vessels, but we'll save
that for some midnight conversation before you move out.
Thank you Mark O'Neill for
using the heart of encouragement with which the Lord has gifted you. I count
myself very blessed to have a friend like you who both encourages and rebukes
me like you do. You have been there since the days of our rides down Park
Avenue on the way to class last semester as I would bemoan my one, two, and
even sometimes three "problems" at a time (I'm sure you
know what I mean), and you have listened so graciously, encouraging
me and giving me the slap in the face that I needed then and still need so
often nowadays. Thank you.
Thank you Kyle Schmitz for
the countless hours at Maria's and all of the car rides and all of the free
coffees that we have shared together. When I consider our friendship, I am
surprised at the parallel nature of our lives. We have experienced many similar
things at very similar times, and you have verbalized so many of my thoughts
about these experiences in ways that I could not. I know we have shared
mountained joys and valleyed sorrows, but the clarity that the Lord has given
you in these times have served me in ways that I don't think you will ever
know. I am so blessed to have a big brother like you care enough about my soul
to keep up with me even when I don't call or text you for weeks at a time. I am
very thankful.
Thank you Pastor Chris Smith
for spending much of your summer thinking with and about me, pouring into me
and giving me the myriad of opportunities to lead, which were really a lot of
opportunities to fail. I've been telling people for months that, in a small but
immensely important way, the Lord used my internship this summer to give me a
real-life understanding of what life in ministry will be like. I know that I
only dipped my toe in the water, but through your gracious servant's heart, I
think that if the Lord wills, I will be only this much less surprised when I am
faced with real life in ministry. I recognize the blessing that the Lord has
bestowed on me in giving me the relationship with my pastor that I have. He is
so good to me, and I hope that He continues to use you in the way that He
has--as one of the primary grace ministers in my life.
Thank you Dan Soukup for
so many things; a blog post on this day will not suffice. But. Here's what I
got. As far as I can see, you know me pretty much better than anyone here in MN
by virtue of simply the amounts of time that we've been able to grow together.
We have talked about everything and nothing time after time after time. We've
shared boisterous laughter and we've shared deep sadness. The Lord was
inordinately gracious to me in granting me a friend like you. I love having a
guy who is as close to me as you are, and at the same time, having that guy be
a man who I respect as much as I respect your direction in life and your heart
for pursuing the Lord and serving your brothers and sisters. I don't say this
tritely--I feel truly honored to be able to watch your life as closely as the
Lord has granted me the ability to do so.
Thank you Barb Waldemar
for all the text messages asking to come talk to you in the middle of busy
mornings. I know how much you have to do, and I know how "J" you are.
Keeping those things that I know about you in mind, I am super grateful
that you took as much time out of your days to talk with me and hear me out and
give me open and honest feedback all those times when I felt so clouded--especially
because I know that those were some of your busiest times. The Spirit poured
care into my life, especially during that week when my eyes looked like zombie
eyes. Thank you.
Thank you Jim Waldemar for
being an amazing example of what a man should be like. Though the season of our
interaction was short, I have a bragged on you to many a man about how blessed
I was to learn from you. I will never forget the grace that you showed me that
Sunday morning in the front room. I know I said it then, but I will again say
that I have rarely been so amazed by the tact and care that the Lord displayed
through you that day. I have often prayed that He would give me the ability to
see as clearly as you did through that stretch of a couple weeks. I can say
with a heart full of honesty that I would be honored to become a portion of the
man that the Lord has made you to be. Thank you.
Thank you Whitney Waldemar
for showing me who you are. Thank you for being my friend. Thank you for loving
Jesus more than anything. Thank you for not being afraid to say the hard words.
Thank you for being a nearly unbelievable example of faithfulness to me over
the last seven months. Thank you for letting me appropriate both some of your
poetic and some of your prosaic words. Thank you for giving me the honor
of having dated you.
--- Now the family ---
Thank you Matthew for being a fun little brother! It seems like it started
last winter that we started to really start getting along, and I’m really
thankful for that! It seems like it took forever, but we finally realized that
we actually both like music. What a weird thought, huh? I really enjoyed
sharing a room with you this summer, and am looking forward to it again in less
than a month! As I look at other people my age, it’s not often that two
siblings are really pretty close when they are six years apart, but I think
that you and I are close, and I’m thankful for that. Even though we don’t talk
very much at all, I look forward to screaming out Switchfoot songs on the top
bunk in your room and just being dumb. But, I also love that we can have real
conversations too—that seems rare to me, and I’m really thankful for it!
Thank you Philip for hanging out with me this summer! You probably know
better than anyone how difficult it is for the three of us to, like, get along
at like the same time. But this summer seems like it was the closest to that that
we have ever had! I am really thankful that you and I were able to play on the
same summer league team this year—I had such a blast! I remember when I was
playing at Fellowship, planning for the day that you and I would be able to
play on the same team, and it finally happened! …Except it’s only four years
after we thought it would. I am also really thankful for the work that the Lord
is doing in your life. As I get updates from mom and dad, I see that you are
really doing your best at working through situations and wanting to be an
honorable man through the process. I a thankful that the Lord has given me a
brother like you.
Thank you Mom for the hours upon hours of praying for me. If there is one
habit that I would like to steal from you, it’s your faithfulness in prayer. I
like to hear stories of people who are what some have called “prayer warriors,”
but I get to have an example like that in my mom. I am really blessed to be
able to see your example from so close up. I am also really grateful in all the
work that the Lord has done in our relationship. He has given so much grace
from where things were when I was fifteen that I have absolutely no way of
understanding it except by a divine intervention… oh wait. I am so grateful to
have you as my mom, not some other person’s mom, who in all reality, would
probably have appealed to the Old Covenant law to have me stoned like ten years
ago for my rebellion. But He gives more grace, and I’m thankful for the place
that He has us right now. He is very good, and I am very thankful.
Thank you Dad. Wow. It’s been quite a year. I’ve gained some close friends
and I’ve lost some close friends, but you have neither come nor gone. You’ve
simply stayed. You’ve listened to me babble on and on in excitement, you’ve
heard me babble on and on in stress, and you’ve seen and heard me cry in some
of the hardest of those times. I’m so thankful. I know some really godly men
who love the Lord and want to be conformed to His image, but many of them don’t
really have fathers who do what you do, serve like you serve, or love like you
love. I’m so thankful that I get a father who loves the Lord and loves others
like you do. I see two different kinds of fathers out there: 1) dad-father or
2) friend-father. I am so grateful that the Lord has somehow engineered our
relationship to be a, what I would say is supernatural, mix of dad-father and
friend-father, and you know when to wear each hat. I don’t know how you do it,
but when I’m in need a friend, you’re a friend. And when I need a dad, you’re a
dad.
I am so insanely blessed to have
the ability to still be able to say, as a nigh-twenty-one-year-old in complete
honesty, “My dad is cooler than yours.” Thank you.